In Case of a break-up, MOVE ON! How big is the world?

I'm thinking about this hobby that I loves....I'm thinking of this work that I like, I'm thinking of this 'act' that I always got myself engrossed in ~ surfing the net - my husband doesn't allow it. He couldn't even SHARE his computer with me....is it that gross that he can only 'share' his underparts with you, that is all? Pay you a little bit of his money, ask you to work a million, shred your skin off for his children who doesn't know or give a damn thing about their mother, or is it that it is so cruel just to allocate my own quiet time to spend on the pc? He wouldn't give, I wouldn't take, either....

I'm now back home with Mom, my pc's provided, my bills being paid, I volunteered not to disappoint my mother, for she's the only one I've got left, I couldn't even win a fight, I will always have to loose... Mother knows best. But when it's time to come to surfing the net, my mother doesn't bother me because I allocate time for her and helped her....I stopped in the middle of my tracks just to help out, and she appreciates it.....

I don't want to go back to that house with no TV, no entertainment, no hobby, just plain utterly lousy sex.

SAINT VALENTINE - celebrating love and affection between intimate companians.

Numerous early Christian martyrs were named Valentine. The Valentines honored on February 14 are Valentine of Rome and Valentine of Terni. Valentine of Rome was a priest in Rome who was martyred about AD 269 and was buried on the Via Flaminia. His relics are at the Church of Saint Praxed in Rome, and at Whitefriar Street Carmelite Church in Dublin, Ireland.

Valentine of Terni became bishop of Interamna ( Modern Terni ) about AD 197 and is said to have been martyred during the persecution under Emperor Aurelian. The Catholic Encyclopedia also speaks of a third saint named Valentine who was mentioned in early martyrologies under date of February 14. He was martyred in Africa with a number of companians but nothing more is known about him......

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL WHO LIVED AND DIED.

COMPATIBLE VALENTINE'S DAY! to Rudy and Jeremy!

COMPATIBLE VALENTINE .
On Valentine's Day, we think about
The people who are dear,
How much they add to life's delight
Whenever they are near.

You've always been a total joy,
Such pleasant company,
I / We very much appreciate
Our Compatibility.

VALENTINE'S SMILE.
On Valentine's Day we think of those
Who make our lives worthwhile,
Those gracious, friendly people who
We think of with a smile.

I am fortunate to know you,
That's why I want to say,
To a rare and special person:
Rudy, Jeremy, Yin.....HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

VALENTINE'S TREASURES.
Valentine treasures are people who
have often crossed your mind,
family, friends and others too,
Who in your life have shined
the warmth of love or a spark of light
that makes you remember them;
no matter how long since you've actually met,
each one is a luminous gem,
who gleams and glows in your memory,
bringing special pleasures,
and that's why this Valentine comes to you;
You're one of those sparkling treasures!

SPECIAL CONNECTION.
Valentine's Day is for expressing affection;
Fond thoughts are coming your way,
We've always had a special connection,
So HAPPY, HAPPY, VALENTINE'S DAY!

Love from,
Elaine / Wan Ling.

Despicable Me - Trailer 6

Despicable Me - Clip: "It's So Fluffy"

I am like this.

SATISFACTION THAT LASTS - Impact, the Slippery Slope of Satisfaction.

MAKING LOVE IS A BONDING AND AN AFFECTION.

mydaily - magazines teaches you on bonding with your mate and getting your earthly pleasures in life.

A Good Sense Of Humour.

Smiling can imply a sense of humour and a state of amusement. Humor is the tendency of particular cognitive experiences to provide laughter and provide amusement. The term derives from the humorol medicine of the ancient Greeks, which taught that the balance of fluids in the human body, known as humours ( Latin : humor, "body fluid" ), control human health and emotion. People of all ages and cultures respond to humour. The majority of people are able to experience humour in example to be amused, to laugh or smile at something funny, and thus they are considered to have a sense of humour.

My husband (ex) is a hypothetical person, lacking a sense of humour and he finds the behaviour induced by humour to be inexplicable, strange or even irrational. I personally like a great sense of humour. I like Robin Williams, or any other comedians of the century. ( Russel Brand is a comedian ).

Alastair Clarke explains : The theory is an evolutionary and cognitive explanation of how and why any individual finds anything funny. Effectively, it explains that humour occurs when the brain recognises a pattern that surprises it, and that recognition of this sort is rewarded with the experience of the humorous response, an element of which is broadcast as laughter.

Humour can be verbal, visual or physical. Nonverbal forms of communication for example, music or art - can also be humorous. The reward is great. To be able to laugh lifts up my spirit. Liven up my attitude in life. I am able to relate better. I can get hold of myself. I can be aspire to continue and persist, only with laughter as an inspiration and not as an insult. I truly believe that in tears, laughter can be the best medicine. Try laughing, in a little while, the sun will be able to shine all over again. Inevitable but true.

CRUSH / Puppy Love / An Adolescent love or infactuation.

Uncertainties, overpowering lust, panic, excitement, impatience or jealousy are some of the symptoms of infactuation. Surprisingly some of the feelings during infactuation are the same when you are in love. It might be towards the girl next door, your classmate, best friend, your senior, friend's brother or sister, a teacher, a celebrity or sister or brothers friends.

However at the same time he/she may not be happy with the lingering suspicions and nagging doubts. Some teenagers in infactuation might make their partners uncomfortable by calling them on the phone, doing some funny or nasty tricks to get the attention. On the otherhand, the shy lovers may just peep through the window to get a glance or may act like a secret Santa who unnoticeably keeps helping when the partner is in trouble.

The recent psychological research depicts that most of these infactuations are bound by sexual intimacy and it ends after a sexual encounter.

ABOUT TRUE LOVE :
Love is an agreement written by lovers on non-degradable objects and states that they will be together forever. There will not have any space for jealousy as they move on together. People in love; whisper their most treasured secrets to each other. True lovers mature in age and experience love as a dynamic process that changes or grows simultaneously.

They enjoy each other's company, and depend on each other in the deepest crisis over the years. The dreams are built on the same platform and met in the same destination. It brings out the best of an individual thus helping the relationship to flourish to greater heights.

Remember that crush or teenage infactuation is the first step for developing normal healthy relationship in future. So don't get scared or disappointed for falling in love. Who knows! She/he may truly become your sweetheart for life.....

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!!!!!!

PERSONALITY DISORDERS - Craving for attention. Don't you notice ME?

Abstract from a Health Magazine :
              I am 29, female, married for 2 years. I have a serious problem with craving for attention. In every relationship or when I am in a crowd, I am obsessed with being at the center of attention. I will go to any lengths to get attention. When I do not get attention, even for a short while, I act in a manner that impairs my relationship with people around me. Some of these people are people I know for years and are important to me. Probably this is because I received extra attention as a kid.
              I send emails to people just to get a response, and when I don't get it, I get wild. I take up jobs like teaching, so people are forced to give me attention....... This is ruining my life and my relationships. I am getting into serious arguments, totally because of my fault. I am also resorting to crazy and harmful resolution mechanisms....

ANSWER : Psychotherapy and mental health problems. Consult a physician Psychiatrist.

Jennifer Aniston, my favourite TV actress, and my favourite movie Star.

Jennifer Joanna Aniston ( born February 11, 1969 ) is an American actress, film director, and producer. She gained worldwide recognition in the 1990s for portraying Rachel Green in the television sitcom "FRIENDS", a role which earned her an Emmy Award, a Golden Globe Award, and a Screen Actors Guild Award.

She is not pregnant and she is also single at 40. She has since recently split with John Mayer. Jennifer is from Sherman Oaks, California. She married Brad Pitt in 2000 - 2005 and was divorced from him.

My favourite actress is Jennifer Aniston and we're both of the same age. I like to watch her in Friends , a sitcom which I used to watch over the TV during my childhood days. I still like to watch it though. I also like to watch movies which starred Jennifer Aniston, for she acts very well. I like to see her in comedies because she makes people laugh easily when acting roles in comedies. I also like her hairstyle and she look very sexy and beautiful as well as gorgeous when she dresses up for the Ball / Red Carpet.

If there is one lady who inspires me and who acts well and is an actress, she is Jennifer Aniston and I love her. She is an inspiring actress, film director as well as producer.

How to respect menstruation periods. What is menstruation?

A woman's cycle tends to shorten and become regular with age. Most of the time, periods will be in the range of 21 to 35 days apart. Menstruation is a woman's monthly bleeding. When a woman menstruates, her body sheds the lining of the uterus (womb). Menstrual blood flows from the uterus through the small opening in the cervix and passes out of the body through the vagina. Most menstrual periods last from 3 to 5 days.
                        When periods come regularly, this is called the menstrual cycle. Having regular menstrual cycles is a sign that important parts of your body are working normally. The menstrual cycle provides important body chemicals, called hormones, to keep you healthy. It also prepares your body for pregnancy each month. A cycle is counted from the first day of 1 period to the first day of the next period. The average menstrual cycle is 28 days long. Cycles can range anywhere from 21 to 35 days in adults and from 21 to 45 days in young teens.
                         When I am having my periods, I don't go out. I always stay at home and clean myself well. I kept myself inactive during my menstruation days and I seldom relate my experiences to other people for fear that they might laugh. But nowadays, I find it light-hearted to talk about it especially about toilet cleaning. Most children talk badly when they see the sign of blood. To them, blood signifies death or an injury. So when my cute boy saw their Mom's excess blood unintentionally left behind due to a hurry or a haste, they screamed out loud. That seems to annoyed me but I told them the story about evolution and bought tapes for them to hear and watch on about the starting of puberty, for girls, because they have to learn and know something about them now that they are maturing into young boys.
                         They do know about it now and I kept myself busy cleaning toilets whenever I'm having my periods. I don't want to alarm an onlooker or a visitor or just maybe an intentional bribe on absolute cleanliness. Now that I have my own TWO hands back, my pair of hands did quite well in keeping the bathroom floor clean and moist and no sign of blood. I clean myself regularly and keep myself dry. This is more hygenic than getting all wet and moist. Good sleep comes well when a girl is dry. She will sleep well through the night. It's like changing diapers on a wet baby who can't sleep through the night. Females are like that too when they are ovulating.
                          I think that menopause is a long way still for me to come. For me, menstruating is like knowing God's promises of a rainbow. After a storm, out shines a radiant rainbow. At least my body parts are functioning well. That's a promise.
                        

Sharing the Toilet / Bathroom! How to Share!

No one likes having to share a bathroom, especially between siblings when you are young. But unless your parents can afford a house where you each get your own bathroom, sharing is inevitable. But as the years go by, you will find an attitude in sharing your own bathroom with someone else. Or an enjoyable dip or jacuzzi with somebody you loved......Time has a strange way of moulding you sometimes, into somebody renowned.

When we get older it is easier to share, as wisdom has its way of reassuring us. Even bathroom topics has become easier and seldom do we fight. In retrospect, each of us has to have a certain respect. A respect for our own bodies, a respect for the opposite sex, which most of us has been taught to in school. Suddenly I saw the whole picture, and able to relate to the circumstances. That's how growing up means to all of us, the ability to understand things.

I like sharing things now. I share almost everything with my Mom, and my kids if there are anythings that boys can use or would do, I can almost share with them. Toothpaste, shampoo, conditioner ,shower gel or shower foam, body shampoo, hand wash, towels maybe reusable after washing ( laundry is done everyday ), but I don't share my toothbrush unless it's somebody that I loved.....for example my baby whom I adored. But now that he's grownup, he uses his very own toothbrush and toothpaste.And I don't share my towels, please.

Facial toiletries are most likely not to be shared among teenagers but since I grow up with having two sons, they don't use any of my makeup other than talcum powder (talc) or a hair brush (comb). I use a facial cleanser, a toner, a moisturizer and a pimple gel (acne). I don't put on make-up nowadays so the cleaning process is not very tough.  I also take supplements to boost up my body immune system and health in order to work well. I also care for my skin.

I think I should have enough. I don't ask for more. If I need anything, I will buy from the drugstore. I buy Dettol Family Shower Hygenic Foam for my two active growing boys for their daily bathing and washing. Cleaning has never been so much fun if the shower gel or creme is "perfumed". The aroma is therapeutic. It works for busy housewives...